Anne had often expressed her desire to leave the colonies and go back to England, but her husband would always dismiss the idea. Theophilus Eaton, the wealthy and influential merchant, had invested far too much in their New England colony to abandon it. Eaton was one of the original investors and organizers of the Massachusetts Bay project, even before John Winthrop set sail from England with 800 colonists packed into eleven ships.
On the evening of January 7, 1658, Eaton felt unwell. After a meal, prayers, and Bible reading with the family, he said goodnight to his wife. Anne thought he looked sad. When he told her he was troubled by the conflicts in their community, she suggested once again that they return to England. "You may,” he said, “but I will die here." And that very night, he did. Shortly thereafter, Anne Eaton, long weary of life in the colonies, sailed back to spend her final days at home—in England.
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“But Moses’ father-in-law said unto him, The thing which thou doest, is not well. Thou both weariest thyself greatly, and this people that is with thee: for the thing is too heavy for thee: thou art not able to do it thyself alone.”
(Exodus 18:17-18; 1599 Geneva Bible)