Showing posts with label MARRIAGE. Show all posts
Showing posts with label MARRIAGE. Show all posts

Friday, January 5, 2024

Anne Clarke’s Heartbreaking Victory

In the heart of Puritan New England, where piety clashes with humanity, Anne Clarke stood before the stern faces of Boston's magistrates asking for divorce. None had ever been granted before in the rapidly growing colony of Massachusetts Bay. Her fate, and that of her children, would be in the hands of the court, but she was more than prepared to make her case. 

Anne Clarke makes her case in court

Anne filed for divorce from her husband on the grounds of marital abandonment and adultery. Given his calloused nature toward his wife and children, Mr. Clark gave Anne a surprising gift that would make the process easy. He wrote out a signed affidavit in which he clearly explained that he had knowingly and purposefully abandoned his wife, he had no desire to return to her, and he was now living with another woman. 

Divorce among Puritan communities was not illegal, but strongly discouraged. Adultery was the most common grounds for divorce, but desertion and cruelty were also accepted as legal cause. However, women had the greater challenge obtaining a divorce, requiring higher standards of proof for their spouse’s offences. 

Fortunately for Anne, the facts were clear. Not only was her husband open and unrepentant about his ongoing affair, but he had also fathered two children with the other woman. 

In a ruling recorded on January 5, 1643, the court noted that Denis Clarke had indeed deserted his wife, refused to return, and confessed to living in adultery, so therefore Anne Clarke “is granted to be divorced."

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“If there be any that provideth not for his own, and namely for them of his household, he denieth the faith, and is worse than an infidel.”

(1 Timothy 5:8; 1599 Geneva Bible)


Wednesday, December 6, 2023

Jasper Dies Far From Home

Six years after their 1610 marriage, Samuel More was convinced his wife had a long-term affair. All four children in the More household bore a noticeable resemblance to Katherine’s childhood friend, Jacob Blakeway. Long before Samuel and Katherine were married, she and Jacob promised themselves to each other, but her father had other plans. He arranged for Katherine to marry her cousin, Samuel, in order to keep their Shropshire County estate within the family. 

Mayflower plaque at St James' Church in Shipton, Shropshire

Months after their fourth child was born, despite Katherine’s wishes, Samuel placed the children with another family. Four years later, he placed them all aboard the Mayflower with those pious passengers intent on planting another English colony on the American continent. By sending them across the ocean, Samuel believed the children could leave behind a lifetime of questions about their parentage and have a far better chance for happiness and prosperity. But Samuel surely also knew it was an effective way to minimize his pubic humiliation, lash out against his cheating wife, and slash his financial burden for children he no longer wanted. 

On December 6, 1620, seven-year-old Jasper More died at Cape Cod from an infection, the first child to die on the journey. Within weeks, both sisters would follow him in death. Out of the four Mayflower siblings, only Richard More survived to adulthood, becoming an important sea captain for the colonists. 

Little is known of their mother's fate, but Samuel More became a member of England’s Parliament and a military officer. 

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“Behold, children are the inheritance of the Lord, and the fruit of the womb his reward. As are the arrows in the hand of the strong man; so are the children of youth. Blessed is the man that hath his quiver full of them.” 

(Psalms 127:3-5; 1599 Geneva Bible)

Beheading of an Authoritarian Archbishop

On a cold winter morning Archbishop William Laud climbed the scaffold on Tower Hill to the executioner's block. The short man who once ...